Remove SuiteSparse_wrapper and winclang patch (#40998)
* Remove SuiteSparse_wrapper and winclang patch
Fix https://github.com/JuliaLang/SuiteSparse.jl/issues/11
Fix https://github.com/JuliaLang/julia/issues/37322
* Update SuiteSparse version to 5.10.1
* Update libsuitesparse checksums for 5.10.1
* Remove more wrapper stuff
