Add support for deepspeeds `exclude_frozen_parameters` (#21060)
* add to deepspeed strategies
* add testing
* changelog
* GLOO_SOCKET_IFNAME
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Co-authored-by: Jirka Borovec <6035284+Borda@users.noreply.github.com>
Co-authored-by: Jirka B <j.borovec+github@gmail.com>