debug failing tests for Fabric with `ddp_fork` on PT 2.8 -> revert #21057 (#21092)
* debug failing tests for Fabric with `ddp_fork` on PT 2.8
* Revert "let `_get_default_process_group_backend_for_device` support more hardware platforms (#21057)"
This reverts commit 119a640e43ee676d8491609f739a31b69857f4fe.
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