chore: upgrade Jest 30 (#10067)
* initial updates
* fix dnd tests and add story to verify in real browser
* fix tests based on blur
* correct comment
* fix install
* fix test:ssr
* fix lint
* fix more lint
* update for types, possibly don't need tsconfig change
* fix more lint
* hopefully fix ts builds
* fix more snapshots
* turn on verdaccio
* move to some new features and fix some bugs as a result
* Revert "turn on verdaccio"
This reverts commit f2e7495b9fa08d87ef47a0b8e6e92ec82ad01ea0.
* remove dead file
* fix bloody typescript
* automated fixing future errors from merges
* fix test
* fix versions
