Add renderProp support for if a Table row has visible focus within it (#6350)
* Add renderProp support for knowing if a item of a row has visible focus
useful for making a row style that remains applied when anything in the table row is focused, not just the row itself
* add focusVisibleWithin to table cell as well
* Revert "add focusVisibleWithin to table cell as well"
This reverts commit 1aacf8fbfaf6e59c3a3c518f108586c388b2a78e.
* Add data id support to ColumnResizer
this is for s2, make keyboard skip the resizer via data-react-aria-prevent-focus