[ty] Further improve subscript assignment diagnostics (#21411)
## Summary
Further improve subscript assignment diagnostics, especially for
`dict`s:
```py
config: dict[str, int] = {}
config["retries"] = "three"
```
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src="https://github.com/user-attachments/assets/9762c733-8d1c-4a57-8c8a-99825071dc7d"
/>
I have many more ideas, but this looks like a reasonable first step.
Thank you @AlexWaygood for some of the suggestions here.
## Test Plan
Update tests
