[ty] Improve check enforcing that an overloaded function must have an implementation (#21978)
## Summary
- Treat `if TYPE_CHECKING` blocks the same as stub files (the feature
requested in https://github.com/astral-sh/ty/issues/1216)
- We currently only allow `@abstractmethod`-decorated methods to omit
the implementation if they're methods in classes that have _exactly_
`ABCMeta` as their metaclass. That seems wrong -- `@abstractmethod` has
the same semantics if a class has a subclass of `ABCMeta` as its
metaclass. This PR fixes that too. (I'm actually not _totally_ sure we
should care what the class's metaclass is at all -- see discussion in
https://github.com/astral-sh/ty/issues/1877#issue-3725937441... but the
change this PR is making seems less wrong than what we have currently,
anyway.)
Fixes https://github.com/astral-sh/ty/issues/1216
## Test Plan
Mdtests and snapshots