Respect --force-exclude for lint.exclude and format.exclude (#8393)
## Summary
We typically avoid enforcing exclusions if a file was passed to Ruff
directly on the CLI. However, we also allow `--force-exclude`, which
ignores excluded files _even_ if they're passed to Ruff directly. This
is really important for pre-commit, which always passes changed files --
we need to exclude files passed by pre-commit if they're in the
`exclude` lists.
Turns out the new `lint.exclude` and `format.exclude` settings weren't
respecting `--force-exclude`.
Closes https://github.com/astral-sh/ruff/issues/8391.