[ty] distinguish base conda from child conda (#19990)
This is a port of the logic in https://github.com/astral-sh/uv/pull/7691
The basic idea is we use CONDA_DEFAULT_ENV as a signal for whether
CONDA_PREFIX is just the ambient system conda install, or the user has
explicitly activated a custom one. If the former, then the conda is
treated like a system install (having lowest priority). If the latter,
the conda is treated like an activated venv (having priority over
everything but an Actual activated venv).
Fixes https://github.com/astral-sh/ty/issues/611
