Remove `unpack` field from `SemanticIndexBuilder` (#14101)
## Summary
Related to
https://github.com/astral-sh/ruff/pull/13979#discussion_r1828305790,
this PR removes the `current_unpack` state field from
`SemanticIndexBuilder` and passes the `Unpack` ingredient via the
`CurrentAssignment` -> `DefinitionNodeRef` conversion to finally store
it on `DefintionNodeKind`.
This involves updating the lifetime of `AnyParameterRef` (parameter to
`declare_parameter`) to use the `'db` lifetime. Currently, all AST nodes
stored on various enums are marked with `'a` lifetime but they're always
utilized using the `'db` lifetime.
This also removes the dedicated `'a` lifetime parameter on
`add_definition` which is currently being used in `DefinitionNodeRef`.
As mentioned, all AST nodes live through the `'db` lifetime so we can
remove the `'a` lifetime parameter from that method and use the `'db`
lifetime instead.
