[ty] `typing.Self` is bound by the method, not the class (#19784)
This fixes our logic for binding a legacy typevar with its binding
context. (To recap, a legacy typevar starts out "unbound" when it is
first created, and each time it's used in a generic class or function,
we "bind" it with the corresponding `Definition`.)
We treat `typing.Self` the same as a legacy typevar, and so we apply
this binding logic to it too. Before, we were using the enclosing class
as its binding context. But that's not correct — it's the method where
`typing.Self` is used that binds the typevar. (Each invocation of the
method will find a new specialization of `Self` based on the specific
instance type containing the invoked method.)
This required plumbing through some additional state to the
`in_type_expression` method.
This also revealed that we weren't handling `Self`-typed instance
attributes correctly (but were coincidentally not getting the expected
false positive diagnostics).
