Refine the warnings about incompatible linter options (#8196)
## Summary
Avoid warning about incompatible rules except if their configuration
directly conflicts with the formatter. This should reduce the noise and
potentially the need for https://github.com/astral-sh/ruff/issues/8175
and https://github.com/astral-sh/ruff/issues/8185
I also extended the rule and option documentation to mention any
potential formatter incompatibilities or whether they're redundant when
using the formatter.
* `LineTooLong`: This is a use case we explicitly want to support. Don't
warn about it
* `TabIndentation`, `IndentWithSpaces`: Only warn if
`indent-style="tab"`
* `IndentationWithInvalidMultiple`,
`IndentationWithInvalidMultipleComment`: Only warn if `indent-width !=
4`
* `OverIndented`: Don't warn, but mention that the rule is redundant
* `BadQuotesInlineString`: Warn if quote setting is different from
`format.quote-style`
* `BadQuotesMultilineString`, `BadQuotesDocstring`: Warn if `quote !=
"double"`
## Test Plan
I added a new integration test for the default configuration with `ALL`.
`ruff format` now only shows two incompatible rules, which feels more
reasonable.
