[ty] Support `__setitem__` and improve `__getitem__` related diagnostics (#19578)
## Summary
Adds validation to subscript assignment expressions.
```py
class Foo: ...
class Bar:
__setattr__ = None
class Baz:
def __setitem__(self, index: str, value: int) -> None:
pass
# We now emit a diagnostic on these statements
Foo()[1] = 2
Bar()[1] = 2
Baz()[1] = 2
```
Also improves error messages on invalid `__getitem__` expressions
## Test Plan
Update mdtests and add more to `subscript/instance.md`
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Co-authored-by: David Peter <sharkdp@users.noreply.github.com>
Co-authored-by: David Peter <mail@david-peter.de>