[ty] Fix find references for except handler (#25231)
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## Summary
Closes https://github.com/astral-sh/ty/issues/3387
We just needed to treat the definition of an except handler 'as' as a
binding, not a definition
## Test Plan
Previously incorrect ty_ide test, noted in the issue, has now been fixed
