[ty] Always pass `NO_INSTANCE_FALLBACK` in `try_call_dunder_with_policy` (#18315)
## Summary
The previous `try_call_dunder_with_policy` API was a bit of a footgun
since you needed to pass `NO_INSTANCE_FALLBACK` in *addition* to other
policies that you wanted for the member lookup. Implicit calls to dunder
methods never access instance members though, so we can do this
implicitly in `try_call_dunder_with_policy`.
No functional changes.