Fix incorrect doc in `shebang-not-executable (EXE001)` and add git+windows solution to executable bit (#15208)
## Summary
I noticed that the solution mentioned in [shebang-not-executable
(EXE001)](https://docs.astral.sh/ruff/rules/shebang-not-executable/#shebang-not-executable-exe001)
was incorrect and likely copy-pasted from
[shebang-missing-executable-file
(EXE002)](https://docs.astral.sh/ruff/rules/shebang-missing-executable-file/#shebang-missing-executable-file-exe002)
It was telling users to remove the executable bit from a non-executable
file. Which does nothing.
I also noticed locally that:
- `chmod` wouldn't cause any file change to be noticed by git (`EXE` was
also passing locally) under WSL
- Using git allows anyone to fix this lint across OSes, for projects
with CIs using git
So I added a solution using [git update-index
--chmod](https://git-scm.com/docs/git-update-index#Documentation/git-update-index.txt---chmod-x)
## Test Plan
No test plan, doc changes only.
As for running the chmod commands:
https://github.com/python/typeshed/pull/13346