[ty] List all `enum` members (#19283)
## Summary
Adds a way to list all members of an `Enum` and implements almost all of
the mechanisms by which members are distinguished from non-members
([spec](https://typing.python.org/en/latest/spec/enums.html#defining-members)).
This has no effect on actual enums, so far.
## Test Plan
New Markdown tests using `ty_extensions.enum_members`.
