Add `user_configuration_directory` to `System` (#16020)
## Summary
This PR adds a new `user_configuration_directory` method to `System`. We
need it to resolve where to lookup a user-level `knot.toml`
configuration file.
The method belongs to `System` because not all platforms have a
convention of where to store such configuration files (e.g. wasm).
I refactored `TestSystem` to be a simple wrapper around an `Arc<dyn
System...>` and use the `System.as_any` method instead to cast it down
to an `InMemory` system. I also removed some `System` specific methods
from `InMemoryFileSystem`, they don't belong there.
This PR removes the `os` feature as a default feature from `ruff_db`.
Most crates depending on `ruff_db` don't need it because they only
depend on `System` or only depend on `os` for testing. This was
necessary to fix a compile error with `red_knot_wasm`
## Test Plan
I'll make use of the method in my next PR. So I guess we won't know if
it works before then but I copied the code from Ruff/uv, so I have high
confidence that it is correct.
`cargo test`
