[ty] minor TypedDict fixes (#20146)
## Summary
In `is_disjoint_from_impl`, we should unpack type aliases before we
check `TypedDict`. This change probably doesn't have any visible effect
until we have a more discriminating implementation of disjointness for
`TypedDict`, but making the change now can avoid some confusion/bugs in
future.
In `type_ordering.rs`, we should order `TypedDict` near more similar
types, and leave Union/Intersection together at the end of the list.
This is not necessary for correctness, but it's more consistent and it
could have saved me some confusion trying to figure out why I was only
getting an unreachable panic when my code example included a `TypedDict`
type.
## Test Plan
None besides existing tests.
