Add a proxy layer for extras (#3100)
Given requirements like:
```
black==23.1.0
black[colorama]
```
The resolver will (on `main`) add a dependency on Black, and then try to
use the most recent version of Black to satisfy `black[colorama]`. For
sake of example, assume `black==24.0.0` is the most recent version. Once
the selects this most recent version, it'll fetch the metadata, then
return the dependencies for `black==24.0.0` with the `colorama` extra
enabled. Finally, it will tack on `black==24.0.0` (a dependency on the
base package). The resolver will then detect a conflict between
`black==23.1.0` and `black==24.0.0`, and throw out
`black[colorama]==24.0.0`, trying to next most-recent version.
This is both wasteful and can cause problems, since we're fetching
metadata for versions that will _never_ satisfy the resolver. In the
`apache-airflow[all]` case, I also ran into an issue whereby we were
attempting to build very old versions of `apache-airflow` due to
`apache-airflow[pandas]`, which in turn led to resolution failures.
The solution proposed here is that we create a new proxy package with
exactly two dependencies: one on `black` and one of `black[colorama]`.
Both of these packages must be at the same version as the proxy package,
so the resolver knows much _earlier_ that (in the above example) the
extra variant _must_ match `23.1.0`.
