Add arguments for pip-compile compatibility (#1139)
## Summary
This ensures that we warn when redundant options are passed (like
`--allow-unsafe`, which is really common for forwards compatibility
since it's going to be the default in a future release), and errors when
known variants are passed that we _don't_ support (like
`--resolver=backtracking`).
Closes https://github.com/astral-sh/puffin/issues/1127.
