Filter wheels from lockfile based on architecture (#10584)
## Summary
After we resolve, we filter out any wheels that aren't applicable for
the target platforms. So, e.g., we remove macOS wheels if we find that
the user only asked to solve for Windows.
This PR extends the same logic to architectures, so that we filter out
ARM-only wheels when the user is only solving for x86, etc.
Closes #10571.
