Use resolver-returned wheel over alternate cached wheel (#12301)
## Summary
I think this is reasonable to change. Right now, if you're on Python
3.11, the resolver returns `multiprocess-0.70.17-py311-none-any.whl`,
but `multiprocess-0.70.17-py310-none-any.whl` is in the cache, we'll
reuse `multiprocess-0.70.17-py310-none-any.whl` (since it _is_
compatible with Python 3.11).
Instead, we now _require_ the cached wheel to match the wheel returned
by the resolver.
Closes https://github.com/astral-sh/uv/issues/12273.
