Improve interactions with existing Python executables during install (#8733)
Previously, we'd use the `--reinstall` flag to determine if we should
replace existing Python executables in the bin directory during an
install. There are a few problems with this:
- We replace executables we don't manage
- We can replace executables from other uv Python installations during
reinstall (surprising)
- We don't do the "right" thing when installing patch versions e.g.
installing `3.12.4` then `3.12.6` would fail without the reinstall flag
In `uv tool`, we have separate `--force` and `--reinstall` concepts.
Here we separate the flags (`--force` was previously just a
`--reinstall` alias) and add inspection of the existing executables to
inform a decision on replacement.
In brief, we will:
- Replace any executables with `--force`
- Replace executables for the same installation with `--reinstall`
- Replace executables for an older patch version by default