Updating SciPy dependency to >=1.11.0 and version for wheels to >=1.13.0 (#2690)
* bumping up scipy dependency
* fixing CI issues
* adding new case for skipping cvxopt on windows
* changing cvxopt to install through conda
* avoid installing cvxopt for python313
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Co-authored-by: William Zijie Zhang <william@gridmatic.com>