update xpu fusedadam opbuilder for pytorch 2.3 (#5702)
update the way to get queue for FusedAdam OpBuilder.
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Signed-off-by: baodii <di.bao@intel.com>
Co-authored-by: Logan Adams <loadams@microsoft.com>
Co-authored-by: Logan Adams <114770087+loadams@users.noreply.github.com>
