fix(ext/node): detect ESM/CJS circular require cycles
Add ERR_REQUIRE_CYCLE_MODULE error when require() encounters an ESM
module that is currently being loaded in a circular dependency with CJS.
Previously, Deno would silently return partial/undefined exports for
ESM modules in CJS require cycles. Node.js throws
ERR_REQUIRE_CYCLE_MODULE in this case.
The detection works at two levels:
- Rust: track module IDs on the op_import_sync call stack to detect
re-entrant evaluation
- JS: check Module._cache for not-yet-loaded ESM modules (.mjs or
package type "module") and throw before returning partial exports
