test(node_compat): classify 3 inherently-hard async_hooks candidates as ignore
These three async_hooks candidate tests require work beyond the focused
promise-lifecycle/AsyncResource scope of this PR:
- enable-recursive: Deno's fs callback APIs run on internal promises that
surface as extra PROMISE init events (6 vs Node's single FSREQCALLBACK).
- fatal-error: needs hook-callback exceptions to abort the process; Deno's
V8 promise-hook integration reports them as non-fatal uncaught exceptions.
- http-parser-destroy: Deno's HTTP stack does not create Node's
HTTPINCOMINGMESSAGE/HTTPCLIENTREQUEST async_wrap resources, so matching
destroy() events never fire and the test hangs.
Documents the triage of the full candidate set with specific reasons.