fix(ext/node): retry named-pipe connect on ERROR_PIPE_BUSY (Windows) (#33974)
On Windows, when all of a named-pipe server's instances are in use (e.g.
Docker Desktop under load from testcontainers spinning up containers),
`CreateFileW` returns `ERROR_PIPE_BUSY` (231). libuv handles this
transparently by queueing the connect to a worker thread that calls
`WaitNamedPipeW` and retries — node code like `docker-modem` relies on
this. In Deno today the same condition surfaces to JavaScript as
`Error: connect EINVAL //./pipe/docker_engine`, which is the
intermittent failure reported in the linked issue.
The fix mirrors libuv's `pipe_connect_thread_proc`: when the synchronous
`ClientOptions::open()` in `uv_pipe_connect` returns 231, spawn a
blocking task that loops on `WaitNamedPipeW(30s)` + retry until an
instance becomes available, and fire the deferred connect callback with
the resolved status once the worker completes. Also cleans up a dead
branch in `io_error_to_uv` that claimed `ERROR_PIPE_BUSY` mapped to
`PermissionDenied` in Rust std (it actually maps to `Uncategorized`, so
the check was unreachable), and adds explicit raw-os-error mappings for
the common Win32 pipe codes so they no longer fall through to
`UV_EINVAL`.
Fixes #33923