fix(ext/node): add ERR_REQUIRE_ASYNC_MODULE and ERR_REQUIRE_CYCLE_MODULE error codes (#33921)
**`ERR_REQUIRE_ASYNC_MODULE`:** When `require()` loads an ESM module
with top-level await, throw with the proper Node.js error code and
message format (`require() cannot be used on an ESM graph with top-level
await... Requiring <target>. From <caller>`).
**`ERR_REQUIRE_CYCLE_MODULE`:** When `require()` encounters an ESM
module in a circular dependency with CJS, throw instead of silently
returning `undefined`/partial exports. Detection works by checking
`Module._cache` for not-yet-loaded ESM modules (`.mjs` or `"type":
"module"` packages).
Also adds a Rust-level cycle guard in `op_import_sync` using a
thread-local eval stack to catch re-entrant evaluation cycles that V8's
module status alone misses.
Enables 5 newly passing node_compat tests.