ggml : do not define GGML_USE_CUDA when building with GGML_BACKEND_DL (#11211)
Build fails when using HIP and GGML_BACKEND_DL:
```
/usr/bin/ld: ../ggml/src/libggml.so: undefined reference to `ggml_backend_cuda_reg'
collect2: error: ld returned 1 exit status
```
This patch fixes this.