metal : support n_kv_max sparse mask hint in flash attention vec kernel
- add kernel_flash_attn_ext_vec_idx: compacts finite mask entries into
a per-row index list (Hillis-Steele scan, one threadgroup per row)
- extend vec FA kernel with optional sparse index gathering (FC slot 5)
- add host-side gate: sparse path when n_kv_max > 0, mask present,
supported head sizes / KV types, n_kv_max <= 4096
- new buffer region extra_idx for the index list
- pipeline getter extended with has_sparse param
- add test cases: head sizes, quant types, nb>1, nr23 variants,
sinks, ALiBi, softcap, permute, v_view_of_k, no-mask fallback
Note: multi-row (nb*nr23[1] > 1) cases still failing - rid mapping
in the store phase needs revisiting for the sparse path.
Assisted-by: pi:llama.cpp/Qwen3.8-27B