improve CUDA cpy memory bandwidth when copying transposed tensor (#16841)
* WIP
* added a cpy kernel specific to transposed tensor which uses smem to avoid uncoalesced access; test cases also added shwoing improved memory bandwidth
* added BF16 support
* more strict check to make sure src0 is a transpose
* reformulated to handle more complicated transpose cases
* bring back 2D transpose for higher performance
* allow build on windows
* tranpose copy more shapes
* minor tweak
* final clean up
* restore some test cases
* keep only the kernel for true tranposed case; updated with review suggestions
* make CI happy
* remove headers not needed
* reduced bank conflicts for fp16 and bf16
* add missing const*
* now bank conflicts free
* use padding instead of swizzling
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Co-authored-by: bssrdf <bssrdf@gmail.com>