ci : move most slim jobs to self-hosted runners (#23619)
* ci : remove tag from build-self-hosted.yml
* ci : slim -> self-hosted
* ci : prevent heavy CPU jobs from running on fast runners
* ci : prevent cmake pkg to run on dedicated fast runners
* ci : try to bump 3.11 -> 3.13
* ci : move lint back to 3.11
* ci : back to 3.11
* ci : add comment about UI jobs
* ci : move python requirements check to CPU runners
this job is a bit slow for a dedicated "fast" runner
* ci : add self-hosted ui workflow
* ci : fix UI naming
* tmp to check if arm64 fast is compatible with all jobs
* revert last commit
