Extend llama_kv_cache_seq_rm to allow matching any sequence (#3843)
* Extend llama_kv_cache_seq_rm to allow matichng any sequence
* Replace llama_kv_cache_tokens_rm with llama_kv_cache_clear
Use llama_kv_cache_clear for cache clearing
Change calls to llama_kv_cache_tokens_rm that want to delete by position to use llama_kv_cache_seq_rm functionality