arg : clean up handling --mmproj with -hf (#13082)
* arg : clean up handling --mmproj with -hf
* rm change about no_mmproj
* Revert "rm change about no_mmproj"
This reverts commit 2cac8e0efb629d66c612f137e75d562f94bb9e6c.
* handle no_mmproj explicitly
* skip download mmproj on examples not using it