vulkan: remove the need for the dryrun (#16826)
* vulkan: remove the need for the dryrun
Allocate pipelines and descriptor sets when requested.
Reallocate the prealloc buffers when needed, and flush any pending work
before reallocating.
For rms_partials and total_mul_mat_bytes, use the sizes computed the last time
the graph was executed.
* remove dryrun parameters
