ggml : add NUMA support (#1556)
* detect NUMA systems and pin work threads to nodes (linux)
* disable mmap prefetch/readahead for NUMA systems
* avoid sending finalize op to thread pool if it does nothing
* silence robot
* fix args
* make --numa a param
* recommendation that n_nodes evenly divide n_threads did not warrant such aggressive enforcement
* lower synchronization overhead
* statically allocate
* move numa state to g_state
* add description for --numa
* ggml : minor style changes
* ggml : minor style + try fix sanitizer build
* llama : allow to initialize backend with NUMA support
* llama : avoid ggml include in llama-util.h
* ggml : style / formatting
* ggml : fix handling of ops with n_threads > n_tasks > 1
* server : utilize numa parameter
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Co-authored-by: Georgi Gerganov <ggerganov@gmail.com>
