vulkan: Fuse rope+set_rows (#16769)
This pattern appears in a lot of models, the rope operation is applied right
before storing into the KV cache (usually on the K tensor).
Add a path to some of the rope shaders that computes the destination address
based on the set_rows tensor. Compile variants of the shader with D_TYPE of
f16 (the usual KV cache type).
Add a src3 operand to ggml_vk_op_f32 - sometimes rope uses three srcs and needs
the fourth for the row indices.
Add fused_ops_write_mask to indicate which intermediate tensors need to write
their results to memory. Skipping writing the roped K value helps to allow more
nodes to run concurrently.
Add logic to ggml_vk_graph_optimize to make ROPE+VIEW+SET_ROWS consecutive. It
rarely starts out that way in the graph.
Add new backend tests.
