SYCL: improve MoE prefill throughput (#23142)
- change `k_copy_src1_to_contiguous` so that uses a precomputed contiguous mapping where all rows "owned" by an expert are in one slice with a know starts and ends
- switch the `O(n_as * n_routed_rows)` contraption to a counting sort-based procedure with `O(n_as + n_routed_rows)` complexity
