[SYCL] Optimize mul_mat for Q4_0 on Intel GPU (#12035)
* opt performance by reorder for Intel GPU
* detect hw type and save opt feature, and print opt feature
* correct name
* support optimize graph once when compute graph, record the opt status in tensor->extra, make CI passed
* add env variable GGML_SYCL_DISABLE_OPT for debug
* use syclex::architecture replace the custom hw define, update the guide for GGML_SYCL_DISABLE_OPT
* add performance data
* mv getrows functions to separeted files
* fix global variables
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Co-authored-by: arthw <14088817+arthw@users.noreply.github.com>
