cuda : add sm70 FlashAttention config case for DKQ=256, DV=256, ncols=64 (#27997)
* CUDA : add sm70 FlashAttention config case for the 256x256 head
* CUDA : tune sm70 FlashAttention for 256x256 ncols=32
Assisted-by: Codex
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Co-authored-by: Jirka Svítil <mistrjirka@users.noreply.github.com>