llama: keep the backend sampling graph static across ubatches (#30223)
The reserve builds n_outputs_max_per_seq sampling chains per sampler,
while a decode built one per output row, so the graph changed its
topology after the reserve and GGML_SCHED_NO_REALLOC builds aborted on
the next same sized graph. Every sampler now builds
n_outputs_max_per_seq chains, the ones without a row of the ubatch on
the padding row and not selected, and graph_max_nodes counts them.