ci: remove redundant or duplicate jobs (#23927)
* remove redundant apple job
openvino gpu and cpu test can share the same build and machine
Update build-rpc.yml
Update build-openvino.yml
cpu any doesnt make sense as we have an arm job already, so do high perf on both x86 and arm
remove duplicate x86 vulkan
combine backend sampling
Update server.yml
run server on arm as windows is x86
* emdawn on one machine only
* fix openvino, remove cpu tag as we dont have many x64 machines with that tag
