OpenCL: Fix duplication of layers in VRAM and RAM, add GPU mul kernel (#1653)
* Use events instead of clFinish, where possible
* OpenCL: Don't load gpu layers into RAM, add mul_f32 kernel
* Reduce queueing overhead for contiguous tensors by using single mul kernel call
* Adapt to #1612 cl_mem malloc changes
* Reduce code duplication between cuda and opencl branches
* Improve implementation