feat: cache NodeJS proxied requests (#12558)
* NodeProxyCache
* add changeset
* Last touch-ups
* add changeset
* Move NodeProxyCache to route_utils + last touch-ups
* Fix race condition
* Actually safer
* Immutable: no need dataclass
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