Enable evaluation during deepspeed Sequence Parallel (#3917)
* Add: disable_in_eval in UlyssesSPAttentionHF
* Add: support for dynamic disable_in_eval parameter in UlyssesSPAttentionHF registration
* Apply style fixes
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