[lora training] compute aspect-ratio buckets on the fly; drop --bucket_no_upscale
Gate bucketing behind --use_aspect_ratio_buckets (an explicit --aspect_ratio_buckets
list also enables it). Without a list, buckets are computed on the fly from --resolution
and capped to each image's own resolution, so smaller images are assigned to a smaller
bucket instead of being upscaled or padded. Flux Kontext seeds the ladder from its
preferred resolutions. Skip the opt-in bucketing/caption-dropout tests for now.