add _native_npu_attention support mask shape like [B,1,1,S] (#13490)
* add _native_npu_attention support mask shape like [B,1,1,S]
* add _native_npu_attention support mask shape like [B,1,1,S]
* fix style
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Co-authored-by: YiYi Xu <yixu310@gmail.com>