Transformers 4.53 support, SmolLM3 and Fix old Transformers support (#2319)
* test
* fix seq2seq patched sdpa
* patch qwen3_moe, out_attentions, and eager_mask
* fix
* use optimum model
* editable subpackages
* Apply suggestions from code review
* smollm3 support
* deprecate tensorflow onnx export and add smollm3 to export tests
* write a more general sdpa_mask without vmap that's also vectorized and broadcastable
* better and more generic sdpa_mask_without_vmap implementation
* style and fix
* fix
* patch find_packed_sequence_indices as it's untraceable
* fix
* fix
* revert tests removal until refactor
* fix temporary hub repo import
* fix
* fix external data tests on windows
* update phi and phi3 min version
* condition modernbert optimization test
* get back old (pre 4.44) bloom modeling support and remove the need for normalized config in ort modeling
* fix test was using hardcoded architecture
* unparallelize test that uses remote code
* support older versions of mpt and phi (4.36)
* remove parallelism from slow tests
* fix vision to text pipelines test
* more specific version handling for find_packed_sequence_indices
* fix